The Paternalism of ‘Preparing’ Armenians for Peace

Aram Hamparian is the ANCA executive director

Aram Hamparian is the ANCA executive director


Armenians don’t need to be “prepared” for Artsakh peace.

The unbridled arrogance of those who say we do is stunning.

As if we were children, unaware of our own best interests.

And that those “preparing” us had our best interests at heart.

Spare us the paternalism.

We know our history – its trials, tragedies, and triumphs.

And we know the long history – the lies and betrayals – of the global interests who, today, once again, claim for themselves the right to “prepare” us for our own future.

To ever engage on such condescending terms would be to disrespect ourselves.

To accept such paternalism would represent an existential surrender of the worst sort, a shameful self-identification of Armenians – by Armenians – as the objects of Armenian history.

That we will never do.

We are the rightful subjects – the determined drivers – of our destiny.

That being said, we remain open to reason.

If there are arguments to be made for particular Artsakh proposals, they should be presented and debated respectfully, on their merits.

Supporters of the Madrid Principles, for example, should make their case – citing relevant precedents, offering fact-based analyses, and modeling likely long-term outcomes – not using ad hominem attacks or seeking to infantilize the other side.

For our part, the ANCA has presented a detailed case against the Madrid Principles as a deeply flawed and ultimately counter-productive plan that sets back the cause of peace and raises the risks of renewed war. We hold that they are “profoundly asymmetrical, demanding upfront, strategic, and irrevocable concessions of land and security from Artsakh in return for only vague, deferred, and reversible promises regarding status from Azerbaijan.” As an alternative, we propose that the OSCE Minsk Group help develop “a new, democracy and self-determination driven approach that addresses – on a horizontal basis and in a package-based format – outstanding status and security issues between the republics of Artsakh and Azerbaijan,” and that Artsakh be restored as a direct stakeholder and full participant in all talks regarding its future.

Here in Washington, it’s painfully clear, in the context of all that has transpired, that Azerbaijan’s allies see the phrase “preparing populations for peace” as a clever way to advance an anti-Artsakh agenda without coming across as too overtly pro-Baku.

In practice, here’s what their “preparations” will really amount to, in terms of actual U.S. policy:

  • The State Department conducting robust public diplomacy and debate about Artsakh concessions in Armenia’s open media environment and free civil society, while walking on eggshells in authoritarian Azerbaijan, meticulously avoiding any utterance that might trigger Ilham Aliyev or his minions.
  • The State Department openly demanding upfront, strategic, and irrevocable land and security concessions from the Armenian side, while speaking in only the vaguest of terms about the promises Azerbaijan could potentially make about what it might one day possibly concede.
  • The State Department fostering the false impression that attacks across the line of contact are equally the fault of the Armenian and Azerbaijani sides, when all serious observers know that it is Baku that seeks to disrupt the status quo.
  • The State Department setting, as the Armenian side’s upper limit for the peace process, a return to Artsakh’s status quo ante (autonomy under Azerbaijani sovereignty).
  • The State Department crossing every Armenian redline, while carefully respecting each and every Azerbaijani sensitivity.
  • The State Department artificially equating Azerbaijan’s corrupt, authoritarian petro-monarchy with Armenia’s and Artsakh’s democratic governments.
  • The State Department relentlessly lecturing Armenians about what they must surrender, with no corresponding message to Azerbaijan regarding what it needs to cede.
  • The State Department putting all Armenian equities and interests on the bargaining table, while striving mightily to keep any mention of a free Artsakhoutside the scope of the talks.
  • The State Department equating the fundamentally American ideals of freedom from foreign rule and democratic self-governance (core tenets of the U.S. Declaration of Independence) with Stalin’s arbitrary and evil post-WWI divide-and-conquer territorial and demographic manipulations in the Caucasus.

No thank you.

Keep your condescension. We’ll keep Artsakh.

Aram Hamparian is the Executive Director of the Armenian National Committee of America.

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  1. ardachece barseghian said:

    I would like to benir you, civilly, to defend with the highest competence and will the ideals of OUR party with activists ready to give their lives, so yes we have advice to receive and not give it to this patriarch

  2. S. Dermelkonian said:

    Sevres accepted map confirmed by W. Wilson with U.S. Seal to be executed Immediately containing Arzakh and Nakhichevan as irrevocable..Turkey signed both : Azerbaijan is outsider pretender by Turkey-bolshevik Illegal deal and invasion Armenia
    free republic by both side. All signing powers must honor 100% agreement to their 7th warring ally.

    • ardachece barseghian said:

      this deserves a review of international public law but I would like it to be so simple to quickly return to live in my father’s village (which I know) in Vaspouragan

  3. Hye said:

    They butcher us every 20, 30 years and request us to prepare for peace. When we are told by Kremlin what to do, then we have to do it unfortunately. Of course Russia would want to bring back some Azeris to Artsakh to create conflicts between Armenians and Azeris, of course Russia likes to continue to divide to conquer since 1825.

  4. Marine said:

    That’s a great article. Why do you think the current Armenian government is not only going along but also championing this formula?